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On the act of resting

Following on from my last blog "From here, I can give" about getting our own needs met before serving others, I want to highlight that...

From here I can give

At the beginning of September, I travelled to Bilbao to attend the "Like a Pro" training from the School of Consent. This deeper dive...

So what is Sexological Bodywork?

Thanks to its coverage in popular media in the last couple of years e.g. in the Netflix show Love, Sex and goop, Sexological Bodywork is...

Falling, flowing, or unfurling? The act of loving

An exploration into the act of loving and what "being is dying by loving" might mean.

In celebration of the different flavours of love

Are you single? I was asked this question recently and it really stumped me. The person asking was expecting a yes/no answer but ended up...

Loving people out of their shame

When people ask me what I actually do as a pleasure coach, I have found that the most succinct way to describe it is I "love people out...

The sweetness of the orange

I was teaching recently alongside Seani Love (check out their work here) at the "Erotic Mysteries Deep Dive" - a week-long, intensive...

Navigating The Void - field notes from an avid story slayer

You've heard me speak a lot about “tearing up the rulebook” when it comes to taking a critical look at the stories we have been told...

Becoming intimate... with grief

I have wanted to write a piece on grief for some time now but hesitated out of fear that I would be taking us off-course from the topic...

Who’s in charge here? A call to consciously fill your pleasure cup

Our brains are hardwired to seek pleasure and avoid pain so whether you like it or not, you are prioritising pleasure!

Trading courage for comfort - the highs and lows of a pleasure-oriented life

I spent a lot of time thinking about what my “job title” should be as I set up my business. The challenge with using my professional...

From satisfaction to ecstasy - the experience of pleasure

An exploration of what pleasure actually is and how to access it, for those who feel unable to experience it.

Tearing up the rule book

In my role as a Sexological Bodyworker, I work with people from a wide range of ages, sexual and romantic orientations, gender...

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