"I believe every moment of every day should be a pleasurable experience. If it is not, then it is time to question what is happening and why you decided to endure it"
Ingrid LaFleur (in Pleasure Activism)
Get to Know Me
Pleasure coach, Sexological Bodyworker, and Certified Dominatrix
For as long as I can remember, I’ve had an unquenchable curiosity about people - how we interact, express ourselves, and what makes us tick.
I kept seeing the same things over and over - people numbing out to cope with overwhelm, hiding behind these shiny but inauthentic versions of themselves, or trying anything just to feel something. Underneath it all is often a desire to feel alive and to be seen, heard, and accepted.
Pleasure is a portal into who we truly are and what we are capable of being.
Reconnecting to my own body and capacity for pleasure has been an incredible catalyst for change, reaching far beyond my sex life and into every aspect of my being. This led me to my work and passion, in which I guide people towards the abundance of life-affirming pleasure that is available at their fingertips.
I draw upon many lived experiences - from practicing martial arts to ultrarunning, and from peer counselling to corporate leadership. I’ve also studied the psychology of followership, neuroscience, embodied coaching and facilitation, shadow tantra, and Sexological Bodywork.